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  • When God Won’t Move Fast Enough

    When God Won’t Move Fast Enough

    “I will not drive them out from before you in one year, which would cause the land to become desolate and the wild animals too many for you. I will drive them out from before you gradually, until you have grown in number and can take possession of the land. Exodus 23:29–30

    Most of us don’t struggle with whether God can bless us. We struggle with how slowly He seems to do it. The Israelites had been delivered from Egypt. They had seen miracles. They had a promise of land. And now God tells them something that had to feel frustrating: “I’m not going to give it to you all at once.”

    Not because He couldn’t.

    Not because He didn’t want to.

    But because they weren’t ready to sustain it.

    If God had driven out every enemy in one year, the land would have become desolate. Wild animals would have multiplied. Infrastructure would collapse. They would possess more than they could manage. God’s delay was not denial. It was protection. And more than that…it was preparation.

    We want Sudden, God Builds Sustainable

    We love breakthrough stories.

    • Overnight success

    • Viral growth

    • Instant influence

    • Immediate relief

    But God is far more interested in sustainability than speed. In this passage, protection didn’t look like immediate victory. It looked like gradual progress.

    Why?

    “Until you have grown in number.”

    God tied the timing of their victory to their capacity.

    This is a hard truth:

    Sometimes what we’re praying for would crush us if it came too soon.

    – The promotion.

    – The revenue jump.

    – The platform.

    – The relationship.

    – The influence.

    If your internal growth doesn’t match your external expansion, the “wild animals” show up…stress, pride, poor stewardship, relational strain, burnout.

    God doesn’t just remove enemies. He times removal according to your growth.

    The Wild Animals of Success

    Notice something fascinating in the text: the danger wasn’t just the enemies. It was what would happen after they were gone. Vacuum creates vulnerability.

    In business and in life, rapid expansion without structure invites chaos.

    • More income without financial discipline leads to waste.

    • More clients without systems leads to burnout.

    • More influence without character leads to collapse.

    • More freedom without maturity leads to self-destruction.

    God knew that empty, unmanaged territory becomes overrun. So He said, “Gradually.” That word is mercy.

    Growth Before Possession

    “…until you have grown in number and can take possession of the land.”

    God connected possession to growth.

    We often ask, “When will God expand my territory?” A better question might be, “Am I growing at the rate necessary to sustain the territory I’m asking for?”

    Capacity precedes expansion.

    In coaching, I often tell people: You don’t rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems and character. God operates the same way.

    He doesn’t just give you what you want. He gives you what you can steward. And if He loves you, and He does – He will slow down the timeline before He lets you self-destruct under the weight of premature blessing.

    Frustration is Often Formation

    The Israelites probably wanted it faster. We do too.

    But gradual growth forces:

    • Dependence

    • Daily obedience

    • Long-term faithfulness

    • Character refinement

    There is something that only “gradually” can produce. When progress feels slower than you’d like, consider this: God may be protecting future you from present impatience. He is not just clearing ground. He is building you.

    What This Means for Daily Life

    If doors aren’t opening yet, focus on growth. Instead of obsessing over outcomes, ask: What skills need sharpening? What habits need strengthening? What character gaps need addressing? If progress feels slow, look for protection. What would break if this scaled tomorrow? Where are you still thin? What “wild animals” would show up? If you’re in a gradual season, lean in. Gradual does not mean stagnant. Gradual is intentional pacing. God’s “not yet” is often, “I’m building something in you first.”

    Timing is a Form of Protection

    We often pray for protection from hardship.

    But what if protection sometimes looks like delayed promotion? What if the closed door is not rejection, but mercy? What if the slow growth is not failure, but strategic pacing from a Father who sees further than you do? Exodus 23 reminds us that God’s protection includes His timing. He doesn’t just guard you from enemies. He guards you from success you’re not ready to sustain. And that is love.

    A Final Coaching Question

    If God gave you everything you’re asking for right now – today – would your current character, systems, relationships, and spiritual depth sustain it? If the honest answer is “not yet,” that’s not discouraging. That’s clarifying. Because now you know what to work on.

    Growth today.

    Possession tomorrow.

    Gradually.

    And when the land finally becomes yours, you’ll be strong enough to keep it.

  • Wanting Changes Nothing

    Wanting Changes Nothing

    “The lazy person wants but doesn’t have; the diligent get their desires filled.”
    ‭‭Proverbs ‭13‬:‭4‬

    The list of wants:

    • I want to be thin.
    • I want to be wealthy.
    • I want to be healthy.
    • I want to be like him/her.
    • I want peace and joy.
    • I want to manage my time better.
    • I want to be in love.
    • I want more friends.
    • I want to be recognized.
    • I want to excel at (name whatever sport)
    • I want, I want, I want…. The list can keep going!

    Being human is to have “wants.” It is natural. But to turn a “want” into a desired result, laziness must be eliminated. Laziness has no place in the life of anyone who achieves their wants. The prescription to change wants into reality?

    Diligence

    According to Merriam-Webster, diligence is defined as a steady, earnest, and energetic effort, or persistent and careful hard work. It emphasizes a dedicated approach to tasks, often characterized as being industrious, assiduous, and thorough. 

    I love this definition… Note a particular word in the definition – persistent. This word has been my downfall at anything I have fallen short of. This same word is also the reason for anything I have achieved. I can’t exercise and eat well 1 day a week and become healthy and thin. I can if I am persistent. I can’t achieve success at work by deciding to prospect once a month. I can if it is part of my daily routine.

    Diligence and persistence ALWAYS WIN.

    Challenge – What is 1 area right now that requires more diligence in your life so a want becomes a reality? God gives us choices on how we spend our day. Let’s make better choices!

  • When Faith Pauses the Hustle

    When Faith Pauses the Hustle

    Reflection on Exodus 16:28–30

    Adonai said to Moshe, “How long will you refuse to observe my mitzvot and teachings? Look, Adonai has given you the Shabbat. This is why he is providing bread for two days on the sixth day. Each of you, stay where you are; no one is to leave his place on the seventh day.” So the people rested on the seventh day.
    — Sh’Mot (Exodus) 16:28–30, CJB

    In real estate and mortgage lending, constant availability is often worn like a badge of honor. Phones never go off. Emails never stop. Being reachable 24/7 is equated with commitment, excellence, and even faithfulness to clients.

    But Scripture tells a very different story.

    In Exodus 16, God does not correct Israel for laziness…He corrects them for refusing to rest. The issue was not work ethic. It was trust.


    God’s Provision Comes Before the Command to Rest

    Notice the order in the text.

    God does not say, “Rest, and I’ll see if I take care of you.”
    He says, “I have already provided enough, now rest.”

    “Adonai has given you the Shabbat. This is why he is providing bread for two days…”

    Rest was possible because provision was already secured. The Sabbath was not a test of discipline…it was a test of faith.

    Do we actually believe God has provided enough?


    The Hustle Can Become a Substitute for Trust

    In sales-driven industries, overworking often masks a deeper fear:

    • Fear of missing opportunities
    • Fear of losing relevance
    • Fear that provision depends entirely on our effort

    Working nonstop can feel responsible, but Scripture exposes that sometimes it’s rooted in self-reliance, not stewardship.

    When God says, “Stay where you are,” He is confronting the belief that more movement always equals more provision.


    Sabbath Is Where Faith Meets Work

    Faith does not mean we stop working.
    It means we stop believing that our work is the source.

    Laying labor down one day a week declares:

    • God provides even when I am not producing
    • My value is not measured by availability
    • Obedience matters more than output
    • I trust God with my pipeline, not just my effort

    Sales culture says, “Never stop.”
    God says, “Stop—because I already provided.”


    What It Looks Like for Salespeople Today

    Observing rest does not mean irresponsibility. It means intentional boundaries.

    It can look like:

    • One day a week fully offline
    • Proactive communication before stepping away
    • Systems that support clients without constant access
    • Trusting that God is still at work when you are not

    Rest is not disengagement…it is obedience.


    Why Laying Labor Down Matters

    Exodus 16 ends simply:

    “So the people rested on the seventh day.”

    Nothing fell apart.
    Provision didn’t disappear.
    God proved faithful.

    Salespeople often fear that rest will cost them momentum. Scripture teaches the opposite: rest preserves alignment.


    Closing Reflection

    Where have I confused constant work with faithfulness?
    Where is God asking me to trust His provision enough to pause?
    What would it look like to lay my labor down – intentionally and obediently – each week?


    Truth to Carry Forward

    Rest is not a lack of faithfulness; it is a declaration that God has already provided enough.

  • Truth That Guards the Heart

    Truth That Guards the Heart

    A Reflection on Proverbs 23

    Proverbs 23 focuses on desire, discipline, and direction of the heart. This chapter reveals that truth is not only about what we believe, but about what we crave, pursue, and allow to shape us. Truth here is protective…it guards the heart from deception that feels good in the moment but leads to loss.

    Truth trains desire.


    Truth Discerns Appearances

    Proverbs 23 warns against being impressed by wealth, status, or generosity that is not sincere. Truth looks past what is offered and examines motive. Not everything that appears good is meant for us.

    Truth sees beyond the surface.


    Truth Governs Appetite and Self-Control

    This chapter repeatedly warns about excess—whether food, drink, or pleasure. Truth recognizes that unchecked appetite clouds judgment and slowly enslaves the heart.

    Truth protects freedom by practicing restraint.


    Truth Values Instruction and Discipline

    “Apply your heart to instruction…” (Proverbs 23:12)

    Truth welcomes discipline because it shapes life. Correction is not rejection…it is direction. Truth understands that growth requires guidance.


    Truth Guards the Heart’s Direction

    “Above all, keep your heart…” (idea echoed strongly throughout the chapter)

    Proverbs 23 emphasizes that what captures the heart ultimately directs the life. Truth does not allow envy, comparison, or craving to take root.

    Truth trains the heart to desire what leads to life.


    Truth Brings Hope for the Future

    “There is surely a future hope for you…” (Proverbs 23:18)

    Truth reminds us that obedience is not wasted. Discipline and restraint lead somewhere good. Truth sustains hope beyond the moment.


    Living This Truth

    Proverbs 23 reminds us that truth must be:

    • Applied to desire
    • Practiced through self-control
    • Guarded in the heart
    • Trusted for future hope

    Truth does not deny joy…it protects it.


    Truth to Carry Forward

    Truth trains desire so the heart is guarded and the future is secure.

  • Truth Forms a Lasting Name

    Truth Forms a Lasting Name

    A Reflection on Proverbs 22

    Proverbs 22 shows that truth shapes reputation, responsibility, and direction over time. This chapter reminds us that truth is not about momentary success, but about the kind of life and legacy we are building. Truth leaves a name behind.

    Truth Values Character Over Riches

    “A good name is more desirable than great riches…” (Proverbs 22:1)

    Truth measures life by character, not wealth. What people know us for matters more than what we possess. Integrity outlasts money.

    Truth Walks Humbly Before God

    Rich and poor share the same Creator. Truth levels the ground and removes pride. Humility keeps truth accessible and corrective.

    Truth Anticipates Danger and Acts Wisely

    “The prudent see danger and take refuge…” (Proverbs 22:3)

    Truth is not reckless. Wisdom responds early, avoiding harm rather than cleaning up consequences later.

    Truth Produces True Security

    Humility and the fear of the Lord lead to life, honor, and peace. Truth provides security that circumstances cannot remove.

    Truth Trains the Next Generation

    “Train up a child in the way he should go…” (Proverbs 22:6)

    Truth is meant to be passed on intentionally. What is planted early shapes direction for years to come.

    Truth Rejects Oppression and Injustice

    God defends the poor and resists those who exploit others. Truth aligns with justice and refuses to benefit from harm.

    Living This Truth

    Proverbs 22 reminds us that truth must be:

    – Rooted in character

    – Lived humbly

    – Practiced wisely

    – Passed on faithfully

    Truth shapes both life and legacy.

    Truth to Carry Forward

    Truth builds a name that endures beyond success.

  • Truth That Withstands Examination

    Truth That Withstands Examination

    A Reflection on Proverbs 20

    This chapter shows how truth expresses itself through self-control, integrity, diligence, and a willingness to live honestly before God’s searching light. Truth stands when examined.

    Truth Governs Self-Control

    “Wine is a mocker…” (Proverbs 20:1)

    Truth refuses to be ruled by anything that clouds judgment. Wisdom guards clarity and self-mastery.

    Truth Chooses Restraint Over Conflict

    Honor is found in stepping away from arguments. Truth does not prove itself through dominance or reaction, but through restraint and peace.

    Truth Values Diligence

    Proverbs 20 connects effort with outcome. Neglect produces lack; truth acknowledges responsibility without excuse.

    Truth Looks Beneath the Surface

    The heart’s motives are deep waters. Truth seeks understanding rather than settling for appearances. Wisdom draws out what is hidden.

    Truth Walks in Integrity

    “The righteous walk in integrity…” (Proverbs 20:7)

    Truth leaves a legacy. Integrity blesses not only the present life, but those who follow.

    Truth Rejects Double Standards

    God detests dishonest measures. Truth is consistent, fair, and accurate—whether observed or unseen.

    Truth Submits to God’s Examination

    “The spirit of a person is the lamp of the LORD…” (Proverbs 20:27)

    Truth lives openly before God, allowing Him to search the heart and direct the path.

    Living This Truth

    Proverbs 20 reminds us that truth must be:

    – Governed by self-control

    – Lived with integrity

    – Practiced diligently

    – Examined honestly

    Truth does not fear the light…it stands in it.

    Truth to Carry Forward

    Truth that withstands examination produces a life of integrity.

  • Truth That Trusts God’s Timing

    Truth That Trusts God’s Timing

    A Reflection on Proverbs 19

    Proverbs 19 reveals truth lived patiently. This chapter emphasizes integrity, responsibility, compassion, and trust in God’s sovereignty. Truth here is not hurried or loud…it is steady, humble, and secure. Truth rests instead of rushing.

    Truth Values Integrity Over Advantage

    “Better the poor whose walk is blameless…” (Proverbs 19:1)

    Truth measures life by character, not comfort. Integrity matters more than outcome or appearance.

    Truth Moves With Patience and Understanding

    Rushing into something without knowledge leads to mistakes. Truth slows down, choosing wisdom over impulse and patience over urgency.

    Truth Accepts Responsibility

    Proverbs 19 exposes our tendency to blame God for the consequences of our own choices. Truth owns failure honestly and learns from it.

    Truth Reveals Genuine and Authentic Relationships

    Prosperity attracts many companions; hardship reveals true friends. Truth discerns loyalty based on faithfulness, not convenience.

    Truth Responds With Self-Control

    “It is to one’s glory to overlook an offense.” (Proverbs 19:11)

    Truth is not reactive. Wisdom expresses itself through restraint, patience, and grace.

    Truth Trusts God’s Sovereignty

    “Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the LORD’s purpose that prevails.” (Proverbs 19:21)

    Truth releases control. Peace comes from trusting God’s purpose rather than forcing our own plans.

    Living This Truth

    Proverbs 19 reminds us that truth must be:

    – Rooted in integrity

    – Practiced patiently

    – Owned responsibly

    – Lived compassionately

    – Trusted to God

    Truth is steady because God is faithful.

    Truth to Carry Forward

    Truth rests in God’s purpose rather than rushing to control outcomes.

  • Truth That Listens and Speaks Wisely

    Truth That Listens and Speaks Wisely

    A Reflection on Proverbs 18

    Proverbs 18 reveals how deeply truth is connected to listening, speaking, and where we place our confidence. This chapter shows that truth is not loud or rushed…it is careful, humble, and secure.

    Truth shapes both our words and our refuge.

    Truth Rejects Isolation

    “Whoever isolates himself pursues selfish desires…” (Proverbs 18:1)

    Truth invites counsel and connection. Isolation may feel safe, but it often protects pride rather than wisdom. Truth grows in community.

    Truth Listens, Then Speaks

    Proverbs 18 warns against answering before understanding. Truth values listening more than being heard. Wisdom slows down long enough to grasp the full picture.

    Truth Recognizes the Power of Words

    “The tongue has the power of life and death…” (Proverbs 18:21)

    Words are never neutral. Truthful speech brings life, healing, and clarity. Careless words create harm and division. Truth speaks with intention.

    Truth Walks in Humility

    Pride closes the heart to truth; humility opens it. Truth is received by those willing to be corrected and taught.

    Truth Evaluates All Sides

    Truth resists quick conclusions. It listens fully and considers perspective before forming judgment. Truth seeks understanding, not victory.

    Truth Finds Refuge in the Lord

    “The name of the LORD is a fortified tower…” (Proverbs 18:10)

    Truth recognizes that real safety is found in God, not in wealth, influence, or self-reliance. Truth rests securely.

    Living This Truth

    Proverbs 18 reminds us that truth must be:

    – Heard through listening

    – Spoken carefully

    – Lived humbly

    – Rooted in God

    Truth listens well, speaks wisely, and stands secure.

    Truth to Carry Forward

    Truth listens before it speaks and rests in the Lord for security.

  • Truth Under Pressure

    Truth Under Pressure

    A Reflection on Proverbs 17

    Proverbs 17 reveals how truth shows itself most clearly in moments of tension. This chapter focuses on relationships, speech, and emotional restraint, showing that truth is not proven when life is calm, but when pressure is applied. Truth is tested in how we respond.

    Truth Values Peace Over Winning

    “Better a dry crust with peace than a house full of feasting, with strife.” (Proverbs 17:1)

    Truth does not need noise, abundance, or victory to validate itself. Peace is evidence of wisdom. Truth chooses harmony over pride.

    Truth is Refined Through Testing

    Life’s pressures reveal what is genuine. God uses difficulty to refine the heart and expose motives. Truth remains after the test.

    Truth Guards Words Carefully

    Proverbs 17 emphasizes restraint in speech. Truth knows when to speak and when to remain silent. It covers offenses rather than spreading them and seeks restoration instead of escalation.

    Truth Produces Faithful Relationships

    “A friend loves at all times…” (Proverbs 17:17)

    Truth shows itself through loyalty and consistency. Genuine relationships are not conditional or convenient…they endure.

    Truth Walks Humbly and Calmly

    Truth rejects pride, recklessness, and emotional reaction. Wisdom is revealed through patience, restraint, and self-control.

    Living This Truth

    Proverbs 17 reminds us that truth must be:

    – Tested under pressure

    – Expressed with restraint

    – Lived through loyalty

    – Protected by humility

    Truth is most visible when emotions run high.

    Truth to Carry Forward

    Truth tested under pressure reveals the heart.

  • When Truth Confronts Self-Deception

    When Truth Confronts Self-Deception

    A Reflection on Proverbs 16

    Proverbs 16 exposes a humbling reality: what feels right to us is not always true. This chapter reveals how easily self-deception can masquerade as confidence, and how truth ultimately belongs to the Lord, not to our intentions or plans. Truth begins with God.

    Truth Weighs Motives, Not Just Actions

    “All a person’s ways seem pure to them, but motives are weighed by the LORD.” (Proverbs 16:2)

    Truth looks beneath behavior and examines the heart. Confidence in our own reasoning is not proof of truth. God’s perspective alone reveals what is actually right.

    Truth Requires Humble Submission

    We may plan carefully, but Scripture reminds us that God directs our steps. Truth grows when plans are surrendered, not when control is tightened.

    Humility keeps truth accessible.

    Truth Exposes Pride

    Proverbs 16 warns that pride ushers in destruction. Pride blinds us to correction and distorts perception. Truth, however, thrives in humility and restraint.

    Truth Governs Words and Influence

    Truthful speech brings life and healing. Deception spreads harm quietly. Proverbs 16 shows that truth shapes not only personal character, but leadership and relationships as well.

    Truth Chooses God’s Way Over What Seems Right

    “There is a way that seems right to a person, but its end is the way to death.” (Proverbs 16:25)

    What seems logical or reasonable is not always true. Truth submits reasoning to God’s wisdom rather than trusting appearance.

    Living This Truth

    Proverbs 16 reminds us that truth must be:

    – Surrendered to God

    – Examined honestly

    – Lived humbly

    – Trusted over self-confidence

    Truth is not something we own…it is something we submit to.

    Truth to Carry Forward

    Truth belongs to the Lord; wisdom is submitting my heart to His view.