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  • Wanting Changes Nothing

    Wanting Changes Nothing

    “The lazy person wants but doesn’t have; the diligent get their desires filled.”
    ‭‭Proverbs ‭13‬:‭4‬

    The list of wants:

    • I want to be thin.
    • I want to be wealthy.
    • I want to be healthy.
    • I want to be like him/her.
    • I want peace and joy.
    • I want to manage my time better.
    • I want to be in love.
    • I want more friends.
    • I want to be recognized.
    • I want to excel at (name whatever sport)
    • I want, I want, I want…. The list can keep going!

    Being human is to have “wants.” It is natural. But to turn a “want” into a desired result, laziness must be eliminated. Laziness has no place in the life of anyone who achieves their wants. The prescription to change wants into reality?

    Diligence

    According to Merriam-Webster, diligence is defined as a steady, earnest, and energetic effort, or persistent and careful hard work. It emphasizes a dedicated approach to tasks, often characterized as being industrious, assiduous, and thorough. 

    I love this definition… Note a particular word in the definition – persistent. This word has been my downfall at anything I have fallen short of. This same word is also the reason for anything I have achieved. I can’t exercise and eat well 1 day a week and become healthy and thin. I can if I am persistent. I can’t achieve success at work by deciding to prospect once a month. I can if it is part of my daily routine.

    Diligence and persistence ALWAYS WIN.

    Challenge – What is 1 area right now that requires more diligence in your life so a want becomes a reality? God gives us choices on how we spend our day. Let’s make better choices!

  • Truth That Guards the Heart

    Truth That Guards the Heart

    A Reflection on Proverbs 23

    Proverbs 23 focuses on desire, discipline, and direction of the heart. This chapter reveals that truth is not only about what we believe, but about what we crave, pursue, and allow to shape us. Truth here is protective…it guards the heart from deception that feels good in the moment but leads to loss.

    Truth trains desire.

    Truth Discerns Appearances

    Proverbs 23 warns against being impressed by wealth, status, or generosity that is not sincere. Truth looks past what is offered and examines motive. Not everything that appears good is meant for us.

    Truth sees beyond the surface.

    Truth Governs Appetite and Self-Control

    This chapter repeatedly warns about excess—whether food, drink, or pleasure. Truth recognizes that unchecked appetite clouds judgment and slowly enslaves the heart.

    Truth protects freedom by practicing restraint.

    Truth Values Instruction and Discipline

    “Apply your heart to instruction…” (Proverbs 23:12)

    Truth welcomes discipline because it shapes life. Correction is not rejection…it is direction. Truth understands that growth requires guidance.

    Truth Guards the Heart’s Direction

    “Above all, keep your heart…” (idea echoed strongly throughout the chapter)

    Proverbs 23 emphasizes that what captures the heart ultimately directs the life. Truth does not allow envy, comparison, or craving to take root.

    Truth trains the heart to desire what leads to life.

    Truth Brings Hope for the Future

    “There is surely a future hope for you…” (Proverbs 23:18)

    Truth reminds us that obedience is not wasted. Discipline and restraint lead somewhere good. Truth sustains hope beyond the moment.

    Living This Truth

    Proverbs 23 reminds us that truth must be:

    • Applied to desire
    • Practiced through self-control
    • Guarded in the heart
    • Trusted for future hope

    Truth does not deny joy…it protects it.

    Truth to Carry Forward

    Truth trains desire so the heart is guarded and the future is secure.

  • Truth Forms a Lasting Name

    Truth Forms a Lasting Name

    A Reflection on Proverbs 22

    Proverbs 22 shows that truth shapes reputation, responsibility, and direction over time. This chapter reminds us that truth is not about momentary success, but about the kind of life and legacy we are building. Truth leaves a name behind.

    Truth Values Character Over Riches

    “A good name is more desirable than great riches…” (Proverbs 22:1)

    Truth measures life by character, not wealth. What people know us for matters more than what we possess. Integrity outlasts money.

    Truth Walks Humbly Before God

    Rich and poor share the same Creator. Truth levels the ground and removes pride. Humility keeps truth accessible and corrective.

    Truth Anticipates Danger and Acts Wisely

    “The prudent see danger and take refuge…” (Proverbs 22:3)

    Truth is not reckless. Wisdom responds early, avoiding harm rather than cleaning up consequences later.

    Truth Produces True Security

    Humility and the fear of the Lord lead to life, honor, and peace. Truth provides security that circumstances cannot remove.

    Truth Trains the Next Generation

    “Train up a child in the way he should go…” (Proverbs 22:6)

    Truth is meant to be passed on intentionally. What is planted early shapes direction for years to come.

    Truth Rejects Oppression and Injustice

    God defends the poor and resists those who exploit others. Truth aligns with justice and refuses to benefit from harm.

    Living This Truth

    Proverbs 22 reminds us that truth must be:

    – Rooted in character

    – Lived humbly

    – Practiced wisely

    – Passed on faithfully

    Truth shapes both life and legacy.

    Truth to Carry Forward

    Truth builds a name that endures beyond success.

  • Truth That Withstands Examination

    Truth That Withstands Examination

    A Reflection on Proverbs 20

    This chapter shows how truth expresses itself through self-control, integrity, diligence, and a willingness to live honestly before God’s searching light. Truth stands when examined.

    Truth Governs Self-Control

    “Wine is a mocker…” (Proverbs 20:1)

    Truth refuses to be ruled by anything that clouds judgment. Wisdom guards clarity and self-mastery.

    Truth Chooses Restraint Over Conflict

    Honor is found in stepping away from arguments. Truth does not prove itself through dominance or reaction, but through restraint and peace.

    Truth Values Diligence

    Proverbs 20 connects effort with outcome. Neglect produces lack; truth acknowledges responsibility without excuse.

    Truth Looks Beneath the Surface

    The heart’s motives are deep waters. Truth seeks understanding rather than settling for appearances. Wisdom draws out what is hidden.

    Truth Walks in Integrity

    “The righteous walk in integrity…” (Proverbs 20:7)

    Truth leaves a legacy. Integrity blesses not only the present life, but those who follow.

    Truth Rejects Double Standards

    God detests dishonest measures. Truth is consistent, fair, and accurate—whether observed or unseen.

    Truth Submits to God’s Examination

    “The spirit of a person is the lamp of the LORD…” (Proverbs 20:27)

    Truth lives openly before God, allowing Him to search the heart and direct the path.

    Living This Truth

    Proverbs 20 reminds us that truth must be:

    – Governed by self-control

    – Lived with integrity

    – Practiced diligently

    – Examined honestly

    Truth does not fear the light…it stands in it.

    Truth to Carry Forward

    Truth that withstands examination produces a life of integrity.

  • Truth That Trusts God’s Timing

    Truth That Trusts God’s Timing

    A Reflection on Proverbs 19

    Proverbs 19 reveals truth lived patiently. This chapter emphasizes integrity, responsibility, compassion, and trust in God’s sovereignty. Truth here is not hurried or loud…it is steady, humble, and secure. Truth rests instead of rushing.

    Truth Values Integrity Over Advantage

    “Better the poor whose walk is blameless…” (Proverbs 19:1)

    Truth measures life by character, not comfort. Integrity matters more than outcome or appearance.

    Truth Moves With Patience and Understanding

    Rushing into something without knowledge leads to mistakes. Truth slows down, choosing wisdom over impulse and patience over urgency.

    Truth Accepts Responsibility

    Proverbs 19 exposes our tendency to blame God for the consequences of our own choices. Truth owns failure honestly and learns from it.

    Truth Reveals Genuine and Authentic Relationships

    Prosperity attracts many companions; hardship reveals true friends. Truth discerns loyalty based on faithfulness, not convenience.

    Truth Responds With Self-Control

    “It is to one’s glory to overlook an offense.” (Proverbs 19:11)

    Truth is not reactive. Wisdom expresses itself through restraint, patience, and grace.

    Truth Trusts God’s Sovereignty

    “Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the LORD’s purpose that prevails.” (Proverbs 19:21)

    Truth releases control. Peace comes from trusting God’s purpose rather than forcing our own plans.

    Living This Truth

    Proverbs 19 reminds us that truth must be:

    – Rooted in integrity

    – Practiced patiently

    – Owned responsibly

    – Lived compassionately

    – Trusted to God

    Truth is steady because God is faithful.

    Truth to Carry Forward

    Truth rests in God’s purpose rather than rushing to control outcomes.

  • Truth That Listens and Speaks Wisely

    Truth That Listens and Speaks Wisely

    A Reflection on Proverbs 18

    Proverbs 18 reveals how deeply truth is connected to listening, speaking, and where we place our confidence. This chapter shows that truth is not loud or rushed…it is careful, humble, and secure.

    Truth shapes both our words and our refuge.

    Truth Rejects Isolation

    “Whoever isolates himself pursues selfish desires…” (Proverbs 18:1)

    Truth invites counsel and connection. Isolation may feel safe, but it often protects pride rather than wisdom. Truth grows in community.

    Truth Listens, Then Speaks

    Proverbs 18 warns against answering before understanding. Truth values listening more than being heard. Wisdom slows down long enough to grasp the full picture.

    Truth Recognizes the Power of Words

    “The tongue has the power of life and death…” (Proverbs 18:21)

    Words are never neutral. Truthful speech brings life, healing, and clarity. Careless words create harm and division. Truth speaks with intention.

    Truth Walks in Humility

    Pride closes the heart to truth; humility opens it. Truth is received by those willing to be corrected and taught.

    Truth Evaluates All Sides

    Truth resists quick conclusions. It listens fully and considers perspective before forming judgment. Truth seeks understanding, not victory.

    Truth Finds Refuge in the Lord

    “The name of the LORD is a fortified tower…” (Proverbs 18:10)

    Truth recognizes that real safety is found in God, not in wealth, influence, or self-reliance. Truth rests securely.

    Living This Truth

    Proverbs 18 reminds us that truth must be:

    – Heard through listening

    – Spoken carefully

    – Lived humbly

    – Rooted in God

    Truth listens well, speaks wisely, and stands secure.

    Truth to Carry Forward

    Truth listens before it speaks and rests in the Lord for security.

  • Truth Under Pressure

    Truth Under Pressure

    A Reflection on Proverbs 17

    Proverbs 17 reveals how truth shows itself most clearly in moments of tension. This chapter focuses on relationships, speech, and emotional restraint, showing that truth is not proven when life is calm, but when pressure is applied. Truth is tested in how we respond.

    Truth Values Peace Over Winning

    “Better a dry crust with peace than a house full of feasting, with strife.” (Proverbs 17:1)

    Truth does not need noise, abundance, or victory to validate itself. Peace is evidence of wisdom. Truth chooses harmony over pride.

    Truth is Refined Through Testing

    Life’s pressures reveal what is genuine. God uses difficulty to refine the heart and expose motives. Truth remains after the test.

    Truth Guards Words Carefully

    Proverbs 17 emphasizes restraint in speech. Truth knows when to speak and when to remain silent. It covers offenses rather than spreading them and seeks restoration instead of escalation.

    Truth Produces Faithful Relationships

    “A friend loves at all times…” (Proverbs 17:17)

    Truth shows itself through loyalty and consistency. Genuine relationships are not conditional or convenient…they endure.

    Truth Walks Humbly and Calmly

    Truth rejects pride, recklessness, and emotional reaction. Wisdom is revealed through patience, restraint, and self-control.

    Living This Truth

    Proverbs 17 reminds us that truth must be:

    – Tested under pressure

    – Expressed with restraint

    – Lived through loyalty

    – Protected by humility

    Truth is most visible when emotions run high.

    Truth to Carry Forward

    Truth tested under pressure reveals the heart.

  • When Truth Confronts Self-Deception

    When Truth Confronts Self-Deception

    A Reflection on Proverbs 16

    Proverbs 16 exposes a humbling reality: what feels right to us is not always true. This chapter reveals how easily self-deception can masquerade as confidence, and how truth ultimately belongs to the Lord, not to our intentions or plans. Truth begins with God.

    Truth Weighs Motives, Not Just Actions

    “All a person’s ways seem pure to them, but motives are weighed by the LORD.” (Proverbs 16:2)

    Truth looks beneath behavior and examines the heart. Confidence in our own reasoning is not proof of truth. God’s perspective alone reveals what is actually right.

    Truth Requires Humble Submission

    We may plan carefully, but Scripture reminds us that God directs our steps. Truth grows when plans are surrendered, not when control is tightened.

    Humility keeps truth accessible.

    Truth Exposes Pride

    Proverbs 16 warns that pride ushers in destruction. Pride blinds us to correction and distorts perception. Truth, however, thrives in humility and restraint.

    Truth Governs Words and Influence

    Truthful speech brings life and healing. Deception spreads harm quietly. Proverbs 16 shows that truth shapes not only personal character, but leadership and relationships as well.

    Truth Chooses God’s Way Over What Seems Right

    “There is a way that seems right to a person, but its end is the way to death.” (Proverbs 16:25)

    What seems logical or reasonable is not always true. Truth submits reasoning to God’s wisdom rather than trusting appearance.

    Living This Truth

    Proverbs 16 reminds us that truth must be:

    – Surrendered to God

    – Examined honestly

    – Lived humbly

    – Trusted over self-confidence

    Truth is not something we own…it is something we submit to.

    Truth to Carry Forward

    Truth belongs to the Lord; wisdom is submitting my heart to His view.

  • Truth, or Lies, Shape the Future

    Truth, or Lies, Shape the Future

    A reflection of Proverbs 13

    Proverbs 13 reveals how truth quietly shapes the future. This chapter shows that truth is not proven in a moment, but over time…through teachability, discipline, words, and influence. Truth here is steady, not dramatic. Truth builds what lasts.

    Truth Listens Early

    “A wise son heeds instruction…” (Proverbs 13:1)

    Truth listens before consequences force attention. Wisdom welcomes correction early, knowing that prevention is better than repair.

    Truth Guards Words and Actions

    Proverbs 13 connects speech and self-control to life itself. Truth restrains the mouth and aligns effort with desire. Wanting something is not enough…truth honors discipline and faithfulness.

    Truth Values Integrity Over Appearance

    This chapter repeatedly contrasts what looks successful with what is truly secure. Truth is not impressed by image, shortcuts, or quick gain. It values honesty, patience, and substance.

    Truth is Shaped by Influence

    “Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise…” (Proverbs 13:20)

    Truth recognizes that influence is never neutral. Wisdom grows in wise company, while poor influence quietly erodes direction.

    Truth is Proven Over Time

    Proverbs 13 reminds us that steady growth lasts, while quick gain fades. Hope may be delayed, but truth sustains perseverance until fulfillment comes.

    Living This Truth

    Proverbs 13 teaches that truth must be:

    – Listened to early

    – Lived with discipline

    – Guarded in speech

    – Reinforced by wise influence

    Truth practiced consistently shapes a future that lasts.

    Truth to Carry Forward

    Truth practiced faithfully builds a future worth keeping.

  • Fall in Love With Truth

    Fall in Love With Truth

    A Reflection on Proverbs 12

    Proverbs 12 reveals that truth is not merely something we accept…it is something we must love. This chapter shows how truth expresses itself through humility, speech, integrity, and faithfulness in ordinary life. Truth shapes who we become.

    Truth Welcomes Correction

    “Whoever loves discipline loves knowledge…” (Proverbs 12:1)

    A heart that loves truth welcomes correction. Resistance to correction is not strength…it is refusal to grow. Truth refines those who value wisdom more than comfort.

    Truth Produces Stability

    Proverbs 12 contrasts lives built on truth with lives built on deception. What is rooted in truth endures; what is rooted in manipulation eventually collapses.

    Truth creates a life that stands firm.

    Truth is Revealed Through Speech

    Words are a major theme in this chapter. Truthful speech protects, heals, and gives life, while deceit traps and harms. What lives in the heart will eventually be heard in the mouth. Truth speaks carefully and intentionally.

    Truth Produces Peace

    Truth Values Integrity Over Image

    Proverbs 12 warns against pretending to be something we are not. Truth values faithfulness over appearance and substance over approval. Integrity removes the need to perform. Truth is content to be real.

    Truth is Faithful in Ordinary Life

    Truth shows up in diligence, responsibility, and consistency. Faithfulness in small, unseen moments reveals what truly governs the heart.

    Truth Honors Steady Obedience

    Deceit brings anxiety and unrest, but truth brings stability and peace. Honest, encouraging words have the power to lift heavy hearts and steady troubled minds. Truth calms rather than agitates.

    Living This Truth

    Proverbs 12 reminds us that truth must be:

    – Loved, not resisted

    – Spoken carefully

    – Lived with integrity

    – Practiced faithfully

    Truth does not rush, but it endures.

    Truth to Carry Forward

    Truth loved and lived produces stability and peace.